Virtual communication in recent years is increasingly replacing real meetings and even phone calls. Indeed, the temptation to tell «in confidence to the whole world» in another blog post or on a social networking page is so great.
It reaches a point that some users are not able to fully experience the joy of an event in his life if they can not share it with their virtual friends, and at the same time, with all those who accidentally drop in to see them «visiting». By posting pictures, describing in detail how was a vacation or another family celebration, they expect reciprocal raptures and congratulations from the virtual «friends.
Of course, not every Internet user is in a hurry to talk about something personal. Some prefer to discuss political events, some share fashion and design news, some try to ponder philosophical and esoteric problems.
And of course they do this with varying degrees of taste and talent. Blogs and posts of some evoke admiration for the depth of statements, sparkling humor or aptness of remarks. The materials of another user can cause an attack of such strong irritation that you want, at best, to quickly close his records, and at worst — to say frankly all that comes to mind. And these statements will sometimes be quite harsh and categorical.
What kinds of entries in the news feed are most likely to provoke such feelings?
As a rule, negative reaction of virtual friends caused by posts and statuses in which the user praises everything… it doesn’t really matter what.
This can be another purchase, photographed from all angles, and report on a successful vacation written in the vein of «You wouldn’t dream it!», and simply statements about his successful and happy family life and his own success.
However, the user’s constant complaints about life also cause a negative reaction from readers. Also perpetually dull and dissatisfied look not only at his life, but also at the surrounding reality in general is not welcomed.
Posts telling that their author did 10 more exercises today than yesterday and lost 200 grams more weight also irritate other users. Constantly repeated posts of such content will make many people delete your diary from their Friend-Line, of course, if virtual friends are not the same fans of healthy lifestyles as you are.
«Dialogues about animals.»
Oddly enough, users who too often post photos of their furry, feathered or other pets belonging to the animal world are also not very well-liked.
Perhaps most readers are not very interested in contemplating the same cat, which is photographed day after day in different poses and angles.
Many faces and variability
Users who like to change their statuses in social networks and avatars too often are not too loved either. Perhaps they are seen as people who are fickle and untrustworthy.
What is worth writing about in the social network
Before you answer this question for yourself, you need to understand: for what and for whom you post on their pages. How important to you is the opinion of people you may not know in real life and most likely will never meet? If their opinion really matters to you, then try to take into account their tastes and views, and edit your entries according to them.
Or maybe your page — it’s something akin to a diary and an archive of important for you personally photos, documents and records. In that case, don’t put its contents on public display, make it available only to those who will be as interested in such information as you are (close real friends, relatives). And, perhaps, it’s better to keep this kind of record out of sight?
And don’t be offended by virtual friends who have suddenly stopped commenting on your posts: perhaps you are writing about things that don’t interest them at all, but they don’t want to offend you with their negative remarks?